If you have had breast cancer or for some other reason have had your breasts removed, you might feel less confident in your appearance and sad about the loss of your breasts. Luckily, there are now ways for you to have the appearance of breasts back by having them surgically reconstructed. This can help restore your confidence. However, having breast reconstruction done is a major life decision that can cost a decent amount of money and healing time. You might not be emotionally equipped to deal with this stressful event. Here are some tips for getting through breast reconstruction on an emotional level so that the process goes smoothly.
1. Stop the Guilt
You might be feeling guilty because you are putting your loved ones, especially your partner and children, through the stress of having you go through another surgery and having to take time off of work to recover. This can reduce the amount of money that your household is bringing in during that time, which could make finances tight. Know that feeling guilt is normal and that it is not entirely warranted. Know that your family loves you and would almost certainly prefer to see you happy, rather than save the money or have an easier month because you didn't get the surgery. Your partner will want you to be as confident as possible in intimate situations. You yourself will be more productive if you are not constantly feeling bad about the way that your chest looks. Getting breast reconstruction will allow you to focus more on the things that matter to you.
2. Manage Your Expectations
Your ideal set of breasts is probably going to be different than what you actually end up with. Talk to your breast reconstruction surgeon about what is realistic to expect when it comes to what your body is going to look like after the surgery. This will allow you to have realistic expectations with regards to size. Also be sure that you ask your doctor what kind of scarring you are going to have. This is important because it will allow you to mentally prepare yourself for the scarring that might happen and take steps, such as moisturizing your skin and using vitamin E oil, to prevent it.
For more information, talk to a company that specializes in breast reconstruction surgery. They will be able to offer further guidance through the process.